Life and Choices

Conception-1, The journey of motherhood was something like roller coaster ride for me. While I missed my period for more than a week, I was sure of having my child inside. It was through the house test first. I still remember the lights were off and I detected the device in the light of my cell phone to discover those pink lines. The moment of confusion, excitement, happiness, anxiousness and mixed of fear. I repeated the test and confirmed Baba (My husband) about the same. My Baba never reacts in loud, he is some calm person; he had planned everything and he was sure of it. So, the roller coaster ride started. We had pet a dog few weeks before the event; a German Shepard and named him Chote, opposite to how his body shaped today :) After the house test, it was the time for factual news from the doctor so that we could break the news to our parents. It was a doctor suggested by Baba's friend. She Miss M (my doc) is in her mid 50's with short hair, a fair women who herself

Dear Parents of  SLC Graduates, I see you so panicking after choosing a suitable  college  for your SLC graduate. You have been running after the big names and goodwill of the  colleges , however the bright students  do not  need a  renowned   platform  to showcase their skills. Also, In coming few years of the career path of your children no one would be interested about their percentage in SLC but would ask for the degree they have achieved.  So,  just keep calm and choose a better career for them not an expensive college. Colleges having expensive admission fees do not  always produce a good career prospect, it solely depends up on student's caliber,  discipline  and  positive  efforts. A SLC  graduate  from a  government  school may have achieved the similar percentage as of any high fives ,so called  renowned  schools and we have loads of instances for those. I have few steps of which you all are aware of but failed to  realize  out of excitement may be. The follo

Mr Narendra Modi has been a source of inspiration for many. Often called as Modi; has been a person of power and popularity in a short span of his incarnation as Prime Minister of India. So famous in social media, every word he speaks or every campaign he starts trends to become viral. #CleanIndia, #SelfieWithModi, #SelfieWithDaughter, #DigitalIndia, #DrugsFreeIndia, #DigitalIndia to mention as few, trending and spreading all over the globe. His words,wisdom and way of life impress many in the globe not only Indians. Among all of his awareness #SelfieWithDaughter is getting a world wide appreciation, acknowledgment and participation. A simple initiation of a Powerful man has attracted Parents worldwide to shower their support via posting their selfies with their daughters. The campaign is all about raising awareness against  female foeticide in India. The recent researches show the abnormal child sex ratios of boys to girls specially in urban India. The female foeticide co

            Nepal being an agriculture based country, celebrates each sphere of  agriculture supporting it uniquely naming them in the form of Festival. Instances are Kirat Rai community celebrates Ubhauli Festival as praying mother nature for good crops and protection from natural calamities, Sakela-Udhauli Festival for rice harvesting and thanking god for good crops and most importantly every farmer from all communities of Nepal celebrates Ashar -15, considered as Dahi Chiura( Yogurt & beaten rice) eating Festival along with rice plantation.  Dahi-Chiura             Ashar (Mid June) being the major monsoon season in Nepal, is the month of rice plantation across the country. Mainly in the Hilly areas of Nepal, the day Ashar 15 is celebrated as Ropai(Plantation) Festival. It could be visualized as Oxen ploughing fields, women sowing seeds and men digging the fields. The best part of this festival is throwing mud at each other and being drenched all over with muddy w

A month Before Scene 1: Talking with one of my Security Guards at office “Madam I should quit the job, my house collapsed in village and the salary I get is not sufficient to renovate it, I should go back to village and start farming instead” “Moti Lal Dai(Brother), don’t talk about quitting job in front of me! continue until your age allows you, ask your family to stay over with you” “------ gazes and smiles” After Few days             Scene 2:  Moti Lal dai comes with a choice “Madam I am  quitting , I had applied to another company and they are offering me a good salary this time,some provident fund facility is also  available . I think I would be able to work more 2-3 years now, I should hold some money to go back home” “ Moti Lal dai, you  disappointed  me!! you shouldn’t have left” “I would visit here daily Madam, I would be working in same area here only another Bank,too near from here” It was really sad to hear the news, a man of above 50 in